We've sampled, checked ingredients, and considered options to locate the best choices in sexual lubricants for women enjoying sex after 50. If you'd like to sample, too, try our vaginal lubricant Selection Kit.
Filter by category, above, to find exactly the right sexual lubricant for your comfort and pleasure. Water-based vaginal lubricants give a natural feel and are safe with silicone vibrators or other objects. Silicone vaginal lubricants are a great choice for long-lasting pleasure, especially for sex after 50. And hybrid vaginal lubricants have benefits of both water and silicone.
Infused with a touch of lemon and vanilla, Good Clean Love Almost Naked Personal Lubricant is organic, aloe-based, and lightly scented to enhance your love life naturally. It's recommended by medical professionals across the nation, who know they can trust Good Clean Love to deliver a 100-percent vegan, petrochemical-free, glycerin-free, and paraben-free product. It's made with 95-percent organic ingredients.
Women (and men) who want an organic personal lubricant. Rated 91 by SkinSAFE; contains fragrance; not rated lip safe.
It's aloe-based, which makes it especially good for those with sensitive skin.
Organic aloe barbadensis leaf juice, xanthan gum, agar, potassium sorbate, sodium benzoate, sodium lactate, lactic acid, natural flavors
Apply lubricant generously to both partners. Reactivate with a few drops of water (or a wet kiss).
A sensually smooth lubricant, Aloe Cadabra is aloe based and enriched with vitamin E. It's free of parabens, glycerin, and petroleum products, so it can promote healing as it enhances pleasure and comfort. In fact, the 95-percent aloe means it's a good moisturizer for any part of the body! Made from food-grade ingredients, this lubricant is safe to ingest and safe for use with condoms, toys, or massagers. Available in a 2.5 oz. bottle and set of 7 individual packets.
As well as having a pleasant, silky, light feel and no "sticky factor," Chiavare Oil is fragrance-free, hormone-free, and all natural. It doesn't stain clothing or bedding. The oils and formulation were selected for nourishment and hydration, and for their anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, anti-fungal, and antioxident properties.
Made from natural oils and vitamin E, Chiavare Oil can be used for more than sexual health; some women have benefited from using it for skin conditions, chafing, and brittle nails.
The oil is packaged in a UV-protective black glass bottle to maintain product purity over time.
Women looking for a silky feel for moisturizing during and between intimacy, especially if they're seeking simple, natural ingredients. In addition to countering vaginal dryness, it may alleviate or mitigate itching or burning.
Chiavare has received positive reviews for its holistic approach to sexual health. Like us at MiddlesexMD, they're woman-powered and have a mission of making sexual health about health and not about X-rated sex merchandise.
Sunflower seed oil, grapeseed oil, evening primrose oil, coconut oil, almond oil, and vitamin E
Use before and during intimacy as a lubricant or daily as a personal moisturizer. (Confer with your health care provider before using for skin conditions beyond dryness.)
Lubrigyn Cream uses hyaluronic acid and elastin in synergy to moisturize and maintain tissues. The hyaluronic acid helps to maintain the structure of tissue, enabling the cells to retain water, and elastin helps to limit stretching of skin. Sweet almond oil is easily absorbed and contains vitamins E and B proteins, glucids, and mineral salts. Vitamin A provides a thin barrier that helps to guard against infections. The cream can be used for daily moisturizing and as a lubricant for comfortable intimacy.
Manufacturer: Uniderm USA
Lubrigyn Cream offers moisturizing as well as lubrication, so can be especially helpful to women with regular vaginal dryness. Rated 73 by SkinSAFE; contains fragrance, coconut, MCI/MC, and propolyne glycol; not rated lip safe.
One of our medical advisors, Dr. Michael Krychman, recommended this product, calling it "a revolutionary product, since it has the moisturizing and lubricating effects of hyaluronic acid and elastin. It nurtures the vaginal and vulvar tissues to help restore, revive, and replenish the health of the tissue."
Aqua, prunus amygdalus dulcis oil, propylene glycol, cetearyl alcohol, cetyl alcohol, stearyl alcohol, ceteareth-12, isopropyl myristate, retinyl palmitate, calendula officinalis flower extract, isopropyl palmitate, dimethicone, BHT, imidazolidinyl urea, cocamidopropyl betaine, PEG-32, PEG-6, glucose, hydrolyzed elastin, benzyl alcohol, triethylene glycol, lactic acid, sodium hyaluronate, magnesium chloride, magnesium nitrate, methylchloroisothiazolinone, methylisothiazolinone.
As a moisturizer, apply to cleansed area two or three times a day, using five pumps from the dispenser. As a lubricant, apply before intercourse, using five pumps from the dispenser.
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When you order the Selection Kit, you'll first receive sample sizes of some of our most popular: some water-based, silicone, and hybrid. Go online to tell us which you like best, and we'll send you a full-sized bottle of your favorite. Shipping of both packages (Continental US only) is included in the purchase price. The shortest path to finding your own personal lubricant!
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Pjur Med Premium Glide offers long-lasting lubrication made of high-quality silicone. It contains no preservatives and has been tested and found to be compatible with all skin and mucosa types. It's compatible with latex condoms, too, and can be used as an all-body massage glide in addition to intimate lubrication. Contains 3.4 oz (100 ml).
Manufacturer: Pjur Group
Women (and men) seeking a long-lasting, natural-feeling lubricant, especially if they have sensitive skin, would like a multi-purpose product that can be used for moisture and massage, or if you'd like more lubricant effect with less product. Rated Top Free by SkinSAFE.
Pjur is a trusted brand long recommended by health care and massage professionals.
Dimethicone, Dimethiconol, Cyclopentasiloxane
Apply to any area of the body where extra moisture is desired. Safe for daily use.
Restore Moisturizing Lubricant from Good Clean Love is formulated to mimic the body's lubricating response, matching the pH, salt balance, and lactobacilli of healthy vaginal conditions. It's free of parabens, glycerin, and petrochemicals. It can be used for comfort during intimacy or as a moisturizer for vaginal dryness.
Women (and their partners) who value natural products and who may be experiencing discomfort as a result of vaginal dryness.
We like the approach taken by Good Clean Love to use natural, organic ingredients for products that enhance both health and intimacy.
Organic aloe barbadensis leaf juice, xanthan gum, lactic acid, natural flavor, potassium sorbate, sodium benzoate
Apply generously to both partners, repeating application as necessary. To use for regular moisturizing, apply by hand or with applicator to moisturize and balance. Discontinue use and seek medical advice if irritation occurs.
SYLK has been trusted in New Zealand for over 30 years, and is now available in the U.S. It's flavorless and odorless and washes off easily with water.
Manufacturer: SYLK USA
Choose SYLK if you prefer natural products and may have sensitivities, but still want a long-lasting lubricant. Rated Top Free by SkinSAFE.
SYLK is made to mimic the body's natural lubrication, washes easily, and doesn't stain. Plus it's bio-sustainable and free of parabens, harsh chemicals, and fragrances.
Long-lasting, smooth feel, it moisturizes and supplements the body's natural lubrication.
Deionized water, extract of kiwifruit plant, vegetable glycerine, sodium citrate, xanthan gum, citric acid, potassium sorbate, and citrus seed extract
This lubricant is fragrance- and flavor-free, as well as free of parabens, petrochemicals, and preservatives. It provides lasting glide, even underwater, reducing friction, not sensation. Beyond the bedroom, it reduces chafing and can even tame frizzy hair.
Choose Uberlube especially if you have sensitivities and are looking for a long-lasting lubricant that doesn't leave a sticky residue. Rated Top Free by SkinSAFE.
It was recommended by one of our medical advisors, and we hear from midlife women that long-lasting is a high priority in their lubricant choice.
The pump dispenser makes it easy to get a manageable amount every time
Works in water
Yes WB has no smell, no taste, and no stickiness, which makes it a natural for sexual pleasure and sensitivity. pH-matched to the vaginal environment, the water-based lubricant is made of pure ingredients, certified organic by the Soil Association. Yes WB contains no synthetic or natural ingredients that cause health issues or concerns; there are no parabens, glycerin, propylene glycol, silicone, or hormones, and no skin irritants like grapefruit seed extract, menthol, or petrochemicals. Available in a variety of sizes.
(Some of you have been long-term users of Yes products. They have reformulated their product so that this one releases water more rapidly, which instantly rehydrates and lubricates tissues to enable comfortable intercourse. If you've used Yes as a moisturizer, you'll want to investigate Yes VM.)
Choose Yes WB personal lubricant to counter vaginal dryness, especially if you prefer to use natural organic products, perhaps because of skin sensitivities or allergies.
We like the Yes emphasis on "purity, performance, and pleasure," and their statement that "Yes has the power to change the world from the inside." We think sexually healthy women have that power, too.
Aqua (water), aloe barbadensis leaf juice powder (aloe vera)*, linum usitatissimym (flax) seed extract*, cyamopsis tetragonolobus (guar gum)*, ceratonia siliqua (locust bean gum)*, xanthan gum, socium chloride, potassium sorbate, citric acid, sodium benzoate. *Organically grown ingredients, certified by The Soil Association, UK
Follow package directions for safe and effective use.