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New Study: Many Reasons Sex Declines after Menopause

by Dr. Barb DePree MD

A year ago


Conventional wisdom is that sexual activity drops off for women after menopause because of things like lack of desire and vaginal dryness. But a new qualitative study affirms my perspective that it’s not that simple (even taking into account the way that women’s sexuality really works). 

For the study, researchers analyzed the comments of 4,418 women (median age of 64). Reading participants’ comments about their sex lives gave researchers an up-close and personal look at all the things that go into the decline of sexual intimacy. 

Callout: Reseach says 6% of menopausal women ask for medical help with...Lack of a partner, either through death or divorce, was the biggest reason. Sixty-five percent, however, did have an intimate partner; and 22 percent were sexually active. In their comments, they talked about the things affecting their sex lives (or lack thereof). They talked about their partner's medical condition (27 percent) or sexual dysfunction (13.5 percent) and their own physical health (18 percent) or prescribed medication (7 percent). The mentioned relationship problems (10.5 percent) or logistics (6 percent), and perceptions of aging (9 percent).

Among usual menopause-related factors, they cited low sex drive in themselves (16 percent; in their partners at 7 percent) and other menopause-related symptoms (12.5 percent). Respondents could cite more than one reason, which is why percentages exceed 100.

Perhaps the saddest statistic, for me, was that only six percent had sought medical help for sexual problems. I encourage you to be open with your doctor about whatever issues you’re facing. While not every issue can be resolved, as a clinician I know that most can be improved to the point where you can enjoy sexual intimacy again. 

1 comment


  • Your wrote: “Sixty-five percent, however, did have an intimate partner; and 22 percent were sexually active.”

    You mean that even among those with a partner, only about 1/3 of them were sexually active? That’s not encouraging!

    Gary on

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