I often recommend that people try the North American Menopause Society's (NAMS) website. NAMS has a rigorous process for certification, so the health care providers who are a part of it are likely to be committed to continuing sexual health for women like us.
If that option isn't fruitful, we recently published a longer blog post with some other suggestions to explore.
Good luck, and keep looking! It's important to have a health care provider you're able to communicate and work with as you navigate the years ahead.
Dr. Barb DePree, M.D., has been a gynecologist and women’s health provider for almost 30 years and a menopause care specialist for the past ten.