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She Comes First speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers, grounded in the author’s candor about his own bout with sexual dysfunction. “Straightforward, intimate, and exuberant.”
240-page paperback book
Our medical advisory team, which includes therapists as well as MDs, unanimously recommended it, and when we looked into it, we found that MiddlesexMD friend Joan Price also recommends that women buy it for their partners.